Tantus Bend Over Unisex Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Harness with 2 Dildos

My partner and I have always had a very healthy sex life coupled with the fact that we can talk about our likes and dislikes. One afternoon I said something that made her say something along the lines of "keep that up and I'll take you for a change".

The thought of being on the 'receiving' end is something I had never thought about, but once she had said that I did start to wonder.

I mentioned her comment one day and asked if she would like to give it a go. We decided to get ourselves a Tantus Bend Over Unisex Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Harness with 2 Dildos set and booked a Hotel for the night (didn't really want the kids wandering in).

The Harness was very easy to put on and comfortable to wear. The size of the smaller dildo isn't too large for the first time and after a few minutes we moved up to the larger one. All I can say is if anyone is thinking about delving into the world of pegging you should stop thinking and get going. Why, I have never thought to try this before is baffling and both myself and my OH are very pleased to have found a new addition to our sex life.

Having been given a new sexual experience, we thought it only fair for my OH to try something new, and with a few adjustments to the strap we found that I could put it on to simulate double penetration - a nice little bonus for us!

There is also a compartment for housing a bullet vibrator, although neither of us found that did anything and was more uncomfortable than anything.

Overall a great bit of kit for anyone wanting to try something new. I now I wish we had given it a go sooner.

The Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Vibrating Dildo and Harness Kit was my first purchase from Lovehoney over a year ago now! The harness has survived well, through quite a lot of use. The only part of the product that is showing wear is the buttons used to hold the O-ring in place which have become rusted from washing the harness after use.

The product comes in a tasteful box which includes two dildos, two O-rings, harness and a bullet vibrator. The vibrator is supposed to sit in the pouch of the harness but I haven't used it after our first try. It sits on my pubic bone and is very uncomfortable. Is is only a cheap plastic vibe and the vibrations are buzzy and annoying rather that pleasurable.

The harness, however, is wonderful! The straps go around the thighs rather than rubbing between the legs which also allows access to the wearer's genitals and the adjustable straps mean it's a perfect fit every time. There's plenty of length to accommodate a range of sizes and I trimmed the excess as it sometimes managed to get in the way at inopportune moments.

The dildos are truly what makes this kit worth the price. Tantus dildos are 100% platinum grade silicone, the best material a sex toy can be made of. Tantus dildos are generally rather solid and these dildos are definitely some of the hardest we own but they are still very comfortable to use. The smooth silicone has less drag than other dildos, perfect for beginners and the two sizes provide a good range. The smaller is good for warming up or use on a less adventurous day and the larger one is the perfect step up for when you're ready to try more. Individually these cost around the same as the whole kit and are a worthwhile investment. The silicone means they can be sterilised and will last a long time.

I use the harness for pegging and it has worked well. The harness is secure and allows full control during penetration, something which is hard to get right but is so so important. My partner also really enjoys it and it has become a staple in the bedroom. The changeable O-ring means that any dildo of any diameter with a flared base can be used with this harness.

Overall, I love this product and, with a bit of care, it can last a long time. It is perfect for pegging and you can get as rough as you want without fear of the dildo popping out or the harness breaking.

We got the Tantus Bend Over Intermediate Vibrating Strap-On Harness with 2 Silicone Dildos back when we first started exploring strap-ons. Yes, this was our first strap-on.

This kit could not be easier to use! Changing the head (dildo) takes only a moment, setup is a cinch, and I would say it is not too large for beginners. Well…

If you are using this for anal, the smaller dildo isn’t too large. The larger one will take time to work up to if you have not been into anal play for long. However, that is a bonus for this set, as later on you can start using the large dildo in place of the smaller one for a completely new experience!

Something we found with this set is that, with some adjusting of the straps, you can easily put this on a man and use it with a woman for double penetration! A toy that was once used explicitly for one of us can now be used on both of us! Another bonus!

I do have one problem with this kit however. The bullet vibrator that is slipped into the top of the harness is more uncomfortable than anything. When using this kit, the vibrator is not powerful enough to give sufficient stimulation, and the pressure it causes feels like someone poking you in a way you don’t want.

Other than that, I would say this is an amazing kit! Labelled intermediate, this was our first kit, and still our favourite!