njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo

A glorious and genuinely beautiful toy that is deservedly well regarded.

An unforgiving extractor of multiple, exhausting squirting orgasms, it has a very 'present' heft and I love how it rapidly reaches body temperature - he loves that it can start off at temperature extremes.

We have used it for him too - he loves the weight of it inside him.

I'm picky. I wanted something that fulfilled all of these requirements:

*Waterproof

*Stimulation to my G-spot

*Not a vibrator

*Safe for anal and vaginal insertion

*Material would never degrade/deteriorate

*Good with any lubrication

*Can be quickly and easily disinfected to a medical standard

*Aesthetically pleasing

I was willing to pay good money if it fulfilled my requirements. The only other brands that were candidates were glass, which is still on my wish list. But to be honest, this dildo - this piece of art - has performed beyond even my most hopeful expectations.

It takes time to get used to it. It is not like other dildos. The larger end can be too big if I am not adequately prepared. The smaller end is better for anal; otherwise it's just something for my husband or me to hold onto for thrusting.

My husband enjoys teasing me with the coldness of it to shock me with temperature play. It sharpens the experience, waiting for it warm up. It works well with our BDSM play if I am blindfolded. An acquired taste, for certain, but I find it exciting both for the unexpected freeze, the heavy weight and the coldness.

If we warm it up under a hot faucet, it keeps its temperature for a very long time. It can actually get very hot if you're not careful - it is stainless steel after all. If skipping pre-warm up, once inserted, it takes body temperature very quickly. I find it needs very little lubrication, but lube is always recommended. There are no rough edges anywhere. It is perfectly cast as a single piece.

I highly recommend it, but take your time with it. Be prepared to take breaks as it can be painful if you just try to thrust away. This toy has zero give to it. If you're used to squishy toys and prefer something that you can bend, this one may not be for you. If you're looking for something completely rigid though, this is your dream toy.

After years of waffling on buying one of these, and trying to figure out how to bring it into the house as the wife is not into experimenting sexually, I finally picked up the njoy Pure Wand. Yesterday I had the chance to take it for a test ride.

I’ve tried several different toys in an effort to chase that elusive P-spot orgasm and have been long frustrated. Well, that ended yesterday in a grand fashion with 6 orgasms from massaging my P-spot in a 20-minute time span after which I was happily spent. That’s not bad for a 38-year-old man that’s been experimenting with prostate toys off and on for about 15 years always ending up frustrated.

This toy is intimidating when you remove it from the box. It’s big, it’s heavy, it’s shiny and reflective. I found myself staring at it and getting a little nervous about using it. Once I calmed myself and decided to move forward, I used plenty of lubricant and unabashedly started with the larger end. What I can say, is it is authoritative when it starts to enter. It’s big and solid and forces you to adapt to it. I took it slow and once the larger ball on the end was in, my body swallowed the next few inches and everything kind of settled in where it was supposed to be.

I’m firmly in the camp that position is everything with this toy. I tried 10 different positions before landing on one that brought everything into place. What worked for me was laying on my stomach with my manhood pointed to the right and using my left hand to rock the wand back and forth. Once I got into this position it took about 3-4 minutes for the first orgasm to hit from only massaging my P-spot. I took a minute or so to collect myself before seeing if I could draw some more pleasure from the well. Guess what, it happened. A second, third, fourth, fifth, and finally a sixth orgasm happened. I’d have gone for seven but my body was drained, my mind was feeling euphoric and a seventh might have made me pass out completely. It took me about 8 hours to feel my energy start to return. Having never experienced a P-spot orgasm before, I was in awe at the intensity and look forward to using this again.

When it was all said and done I laid on my stomach with the wand still inserted for about 20 minutes after I was done. It was in place and I was enjoying that post-orgasm feeling too much to remove it. When I finally did take it out, I took my time because, well, the end of the larger end of the wand is in charge at all times.

Cleanup was a breeze, washed in hot water with antibacterial soap and towelled dry.

I was intimidated at first because the weight and size of the larger end of this toy make you wonder how you are going to get that inside of you. But, next time going in I’m not going to feel that way. I’ll just know to insert, roll onto my stomach and eNjoy.

Be relaxed when using for the first time. If you are concerned about getting “caught” make sure you have an hour to an hour and a half to figure it all out. Lay down a towel, this is a messy ride.