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Apparently There are 12 Female Orgasms - And This Is How To Have Them All

Lovehoney Student Sex Advice

If you had asked me how many different types of orgasms there were when I was 19, I probably would have said “…there are different types?”.

Sadly, like many young women, the only type of orgasm I knew about back then was the kind I was habitually faking.

But then I bought my first sex toy, and started being more vocal about what I needed in bed, and, because of this, I’ve learnt that there are at least 12 distinct types of orgasms that women can have.

I’ve not had all of them yet, mind you. But to paraphrase my good friend 50 Cent, this year my plan is to get off or die trying.

If you, too, are curious about this kind of 'Dirty Dozen', then just keep reading to find out what they are, and how you can have them.

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7 Top Oral Sex Moves (For Anybody)

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If you’re looking to improve your oral presentation (and no, we don’t mean the kind that's accompanied by a PowerPoint) then this is the article for you.

We’ve got three playful positions and four insightful tips to elevate your oral sex, no matter what body parts you and your partner possess.

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6 Ways to Make Missionary Sex Even Better

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Missionary sex doesn't get the credit it deserves. It gets dismissed as 'boring' and 'vanilla', when in reality it's a fundamental position in the Big Bumper Book of Bonking!

Missionary position sees one partner lie on their back, whilst the other partner lies on top, penetrating them either vaginally or anally.

We've got 6 ways to improve missionary sex here and, to save you from getting tangled up like you're playing a game of naked Twister, we've come up with a system.

We've called the partner who is lying on their back the HP ('horizontal partner') and the partner who is riding up top the TP ('top partner').

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10 Reasons Foreplay's the Key to a Fulfilling Sex Life

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Over the Christmas season, I was watching plenty of Christmas films (obviously), including one of my all-time favourites, The Holiday.

This year, I noticed a line that had somehow flown under my radar throughout my adult life.

Graham (Jude Law): "How do you feel about foreplay?"

Amanda (Cameron Diaz): "I think it's overrated. Significantly overrated."

WHAT?! I spend a lot of time advocating for foreplay. I don’t think people are using it to its full potential.

I love talking about the erogenous zones of the body, why the definitions of ‘foreplay’ and ‘sex’ are a little blurry, and why differentiating between those things can be damaging for people and their sex lives.

Somehow, I never seem to talk about why people should spend more time doing it, and why it’s most definitely not overrated! So here goes:

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6 Fun Ways to Initiate Sex

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Lights off. Bit of cuddle. Some kissing. Sex.

Lights off. Bit of cuddle. Some kissing. Sex.

Lights off. Bit of cuddle. Some kissing. Sex.

Lights off. Bit of a cuddle – do you see where we're going with this?

If sex is always initiated the same way in your relationship, your love life tends to get quite predictable. Boredom is something we put up with on a long train trip or during a staff meeting – it's not something we should be experiencing in the bedroom!

Try any of these 6 fun ways to initiate sex the next time you want to break away from your usual routine (remember to always get clear consent from your partner, no matter how they seem to be responding to your advances).

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7 of the Best Sex Positions for Adding in Your Vibrator

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We get so caught up in using our vibrators for solo play that we often forget to bring our sex toys to the party!

Vibrators are great for masturbating with, but they also have the ability to take sex with a partner from fun to phenomenal.

What's more, if you are someone who can't orgasm from internal stimulation alone (and believe us, you're not the only one!) then incorporating your favourite vibe into your sex life could be a game-changer.

Here are 7 of the best sex positions for adding in your vibrator – there are countless more but those are for you and your vibe to discover first-hand!

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The Top 10 Sexiest Movie Villains

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Truth, justice and saving the world? *yawn* How predictable!

Why would anyone fall for the hero when it's the villain who's always far more interesting?

Think of the antagonist in your favourite movie or TV series, and we guarantee they'll be way more seductive while walking on the wild side than the clean-cut leading lad or lass trying to clap them in handcuffs.

After much deliberation, we've managed to rank 10 of the sexiest fictional characters ever to grace our TV screens.

Without further ado, here are our favourite bad guys.

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8 Sexy Things You Can Do (That Don't Need an Orgasm to Be Fun)

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Orgasms are absolutely fantastic, there's no doubt about that. But, there might be times where you or your partner cannot or choose not to reach climax.

Sex should be pleasurable and fun, whether you're orgasming or not. It's those sexy, fun feelings that bring us to orgasm, and we wouldn't be orgasming without them.

It's just like that age-old saying – the journey is better than (or even the reason for) the destination. You wouldn't do a hike to a lookout point and ignore the wildlife, plants and waterfall along the way, would you?

Also, I find that removing the sense of having a 'goal' (i.e. orgasming) when engaging in partnered or solo sex can make things much more enjoyable.

That way you'll notice all of the other sexy things happening along the way that you may have overlooked because you were so focused on achieving an orgasm.

Let's explore some other sexy and fun things that don't include orgasms.

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