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Prostate Orgasms: How Can Men Have Multiple, Non-Ejaculatory, Full-Body Orgasms?

on Feb 08, 2022

If you've ever visited the Lovehoney Forum, you might have seen countless users with questions about prostate orgasms. Are they real? What does it feel like? And most importantly; how can you experience one? One user, UKLovingCouple, has become a bit of a Lovehoney legend when it comes to answering these questions, so we've invited them to share their experience. Here, you'll find recommendations for what to do and which toys to use, according to this experienced P-spot player.

What is a prostate?

The prostate is a part of the male reproductive system, located beneath the bladder. You can feel it by inserting a finger an inch (or two) inside the anus. The prostate's job is to produce and contain fluid that forms part of semen. For men, trans women, and non-binary people with a prostate, this chestnut-sized gland can feel very pleasurable to massage. That's why some call it the P-spot or male G-spot!

What is a prostate orgasm?

A prostate orgasm is when you climax by stimulating the prostate through anal masturbation. Here are the main differences between prostate orgasms and penis orgasms:

Where a penis orgasm has a refractory period (where you can usually only have an ejaculatory orgasm once in a session) you can have multiple prostate orgasms because you do not ejaculate, so there is no refractory period.

The sensations you feel from a penis orgasm are focused around the groin area and can last for 5 to 10 seconds. You might feel a prostate orgasm across your entire body and it can last for several minutes. In that sense, prostate orgasms are slightly more similar to vaginal or G-spot orgasms.

Many people don't actually stimulate their penis or have an erection while exploring prostate orgasm. That said, you can enjoy prostate stimulation while masturbating your penis or having penetrative sex.

What are the best prostate toys?

The best prostate toys have a curved, bulbous tip and a flared base. Look for sensual, body safe materials like silicone or stainless steel. Here are the two best toys for the job:

Dildos: Slimmer dildos might be less intimidating and easier to insert, but ideally you want something curved with a large stimulation head. For example, the njoy Pure Wand Stainless Steel Dildo is hugely popular for both P-spot and G-spot pleasure, as the smooth metal feels pleasingly cool and weighty inside you.

Prostate massagers: These toys are specifically designed to put pressure on the prostate, so it'll much easier to hit that sweet spot. They're also often hands-free so you don't have to touch them when they're inside you. Instead, you can use your breath and butt muscles to increase the pressure inside you. The Aneros range includes lots of options in premium silicone, and some even offer remote control vibrations.